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Should I End My Relationship?

June 27, 2013

   Are you in a good relationship? Are you happy? Do you sometimes think about breaking up with your partner? Are there things about your partner you don’t like? Do you think your partner can change? Are you happy one day and upset the next day? How do you know when to end a relationship?

   There are pros and cons in any relationship. Do the pros-the good things-outweigh the cons. Are you happy? Are you really happy? What are the good things and the bad things in your relationship? How long have you been in your current relationship?

   What behaviors-things your partner does or says-would you like to see changed in your partner? How your partner acts, thinks, and treats you is very important. Does your partner have a temper or is your partner controlling?

   Are you in love with your partner, or are you in love with how good your partner is in bed? Do you see your partner in your future? Is there something about your partner that you don’t like? Is your partner good about listening to how you feel? What do you do? Should you end your relationship?

   I think it will help you to determine whether to maintain your current relationship or end your relationship by thinking about it in the following ways:

         1. You accept your partner’s actions and behaviors and think the relationship is worth maintaining.

         2. You don’t accept your partner’s actions and behaviors, but you think the relationship is worth maintaining.

         3. You do not accept your partner’s actions and behaviors, and you think the relationship is not worth maintaining.

   Relationships take work and commitment. And relationships evolve over time for the good or for the bad. Good relationships stand the test of time. Remember that life is about being as happy as humanely possible. Good luck to you. I hope this post(blog) is/was helpful to you. 

   Sincerely,

      Steve Malysz  M.S.

      Mental Health Professional

      ***You may email Steve with any questions you may have @driftwoodms14@yahoo.com

       

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